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Catching Your Wife Masturbating

There is something very erotic about discovering - and watching - your wife masturbating in private when she thinks no one is looking.

Okay, so it's not like we don't have ample opportunity to watch our spouses getting dressed or taking a shower. But the thrill of catching a wife playing with herself is the ultimate voyeur's fantasy!

Only trouble is, catching her in the act might not be easy. And she may not be the masturbating type - at least, not without some encouragement!

Here's my own thoughts on the subject, along with suggestions I've found throughout the Internet.


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Setting up the opportunity for her to masturbate

Let's start by saying there are women who don't masturbate, period. Whether it's upbringing, religion, or emotional distress, some women never masturbate. Or masturbate so infrequently trying to catch them is a lesson in chronic despair.

Fortunately, for most women aged 18 to 65, masturbation is part of their normal sex life. In fact, according to surveys, about 80% of adult-age females masturbate. How often depends on the free time they have, and their overall need to crank one off.

First and foremost, if you want to catch your wife hammering on her pussy, give her the chance!

How? For starters:

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  • Give her a couple nights off each week. If you have kids, take the job of putting them to bed. This will give her more "me time" so that she has more opportunity to please herself.
  • Many people masturbate in bed before they get up, or after they hit the sack. Mornings are great for giving her some extra quiet time. But be sure she thinks you won't come in and interrupt her. Start your day a half hour earlier while she's still in bed.
  • On the weekends take the kids out to breakfast or a park. Let her know this is your plan. This sets in her mind that come morning she'll have the chance to do a bit of female masturbation.
  • Get her a computer of her own. She's more likely to use a laptop to find erotic stories, pictures, and videos that turn her on. She'll use this whacking material to help her get off.
  • Make sure she feels pretty and wanted and sexy. The better she feels about herself, the more she'll feel free to enjoy her natural sexuality.


Helping her WANT to jill off

Like men, girls masturbate primarily as a means of sexual release. But they aren't as likely to jill off if they don't feel desirable.

Your goal isn't to "trick" your wife into playing with herself so you can watch. Seeing your wife masturbate is only part of the story - you want to watch her blossom sexually. That will take a bit of work on your part, but the reward is worth it.

  • Be sure your lady feels pretty. And wanted.
  • Let her keep her fantasies private. She'll use them when she plays with herself.
  • Encourage her to masturbate during sex. This helps her get used to her own touch. The more she's used to it, the more likely she'll do it on her own.
  • Never withhold sex thinking it'll get her so horny she'll whack off. Usually the opposite happens. She won't feel attractive, and her sex drive will drop.

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Things for her to make masturbating FUN!

Women want to come just as much as men do!

But the ladies aren't as likely to be turned on by overtly graphic depictions of sex. What turns you on may not turn her on. Understanding this, and finding out what gets the blood flowing to her little button, will help you get to watch that sweet moment when she secretly rubs herself to a powerful orgasm.

Sex Toys

If she doesn't already own one, get your wife a vibrator, especially if she's having trouble reaching orgasm.

For many women a vibrator is the fastest, surest way to come.

Dildo-shaped battery-operated vibrators are convenient, and can be easily hidden.

If your wife needs more horsepower, a hand-held wand vibrator is a good bet. These plug into the wall; the better ones have built-in rechargeable batteries. She can take it with her - like into the bathroom or out on the sundeck. The wand doesn't look like a sex aid, a plus for girls still embarrassed about admitting they masturbate.

If your spouse likes the feel of a penis in her when she comes, be sure she has a selection of rubber dildos. Get a couple sizes, and unless she asks for one, skip the 14-inchers. The realistic feeling Cyberskin dildos are among my wife's favorites, and she enjoys how much they feel like a real cock.

See the sidebar to the left for some low-cost online sex toy resources.

Porn

There's all types of porn. You got your sexy R-rated Playboy Channel movies, to raunchy and graphic depictions of most anything imaginable.

Some women prefer the softer side, though this is changing. Get to know what your wife likes, then help her build her collection of porn videos.

Idea: Find a fantasy she's interested in that you can share with her.

Erotica

For many women, especially older wives, erotic literature is another means to become aroused. Books on female fantasies are a good start.

Nancy Friday's My Secret Garden is often cited by women as the book that changed their outlook on fantasizing and masturbating - in fact, it got my wife to agree to hot wifing! Encourage her to buy and read these books - and make sure she has quality private time to do so.


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Capturing the moment

Suppose now your wife is feeling randy, and she has the opportunity to do some clitoral self-inspection.

One way to catch her masturbating is to hide away in the closet and watch from the crack in the door. But that requires luck - can you be there at the exact time your wife is masturbating? A better way is with a security camera. There are many to choose from and cost is cheap. You can get a good solid state camcorder for under $150.

Before moving on, here's a warning: There are risks to spying on your wife! Read the disclaimer at the bottom of this article for more general info.

With that out of the way, let's start. You can only catch your wife if the camera is in the room where she's strumming her clitoris. That's probably the bedroom, but it could also be the bathroom, living room, laundry room, and of course in front of the computer.

If your wife stays in bed after you leave for work try first in the bedroom. The same if she has trouble falling asleep. A low-light or infrared camera works well here. She may masturbate in the dark when you're snoring away.

Bathrooms are tricky, but this is another common location for catching your wife masturbating. Where you set up the camera depends on the layout of the bathroom.

If you have a home PC you could try setting up the camera so that it catches her jilling off while she looks at pornography, or reads randy stories and letters. If she has a laptop, put a hidden camera near the desk or other place where she most often uses it.

For other parts of the house you'll just have to experiment. It pays to have a small battery-operated hidden camera so that you can move it from place to place without arousing suspicion. If she complains, "Honey, why is that wall clock with the funny hole in it following me around the house?" you know you've gone too far!


Be patient - then wait some more!

It may take many tries to learn your wife's masturbatory schedule. Don't get discouraged. This is a long-term hobby.

If your tapes are coming up empty it could be your camera isn't in the right place, or she doesn't masturbate that time of day. If you want to voyeur her playing, you've got to change one or more of these conditions.

Odds are, sooner or later, you'll hit the jackpot. And you'll enjoy that sweet moment of watching the woman you married during her most intimate private time.


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Disclaimer - The not so small print

I will take this opportunity now to remind you that there are risks to spying on your wife.

If she finds out, at best she'll laugh it off and watch the tape with you. At worse she'll divorce you. So, consider everything you read here only for its entertainment value only. Do not construe this information as advice.

It also stands to reason that you never, ever set up a camera anywhere else except in your own home. And even then it may not be legal. Check your local laws. I cannot either recommend or condone surveilling anyone by hidden camera. You do that at your own risk.

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